If she discovers that she is indeed gay, will that make her a bad mom? Entitled to less access with your child? Why do you need a divorce based on infidelity? Is that something to do with where you live?
I have snooped too. It gives me an ugly feeling. I would rather keep my side of the street cleaner than that. I won't be doing it again.
Cat04-there is not a time you have spoken that I am not convicted and made to look at myself. I think you just might be my hero. I cannot thank you enough for your wisdom.
Should it ever come out that my h has OW and we get a D, then I won't file based on adultery. If it ever comes to that then we will file with irreconcilable differences. I won't do that to my kids. That's just my personal feels on the matter. He has cheated on me once and it was minor compared to an affair. I can imagine how badly that must hurt.
