thanks canada i love canada, do you know elvis costello lives there part time? i think i started the letter to be more of an apology and then, as is often the case, it turned into something else i do know that after he read it, he called me to say goodnight but i also know that more than anything he is worried about my well being and trying to be a good guy i'm glad your wife still lives with you i think that makes it easier no more setbacks for me i have to keep my eye on the big picture and you are correct one day at a time btw, i understand about my board name but that pretty much sums me up these days