In fairness to Sparks14, and as someone who was cheated on...I personally don't believe the 2 can be compared.
I understand what yourself and Mach1 are trying to do, to help Sparks14 move forward.
Weighting the lack of trust doesn't make a difference when it comes to fixing it, but I come from a position where someone initiates breaking a common trust - then by default that is going to put the common trust in jeopardy.
Just to summarize, I think it's fair to acknowledge this point - but then clearly you need to move forward if you truly want to fix the "common trust" between the 2 of you.
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Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
