Originally Posted By: sparks14
The trust issue is broken on both sides. No matter how big or how small. In my mind, the trust broken from committing adultery and lying to me for 10 months outweighs the trust broken from checking her email to discover it.



I don't know about that pedastol thing Sparks...

A lie is a lie....no matter how fine it is chopped up.

Anything about how major or minor is judgmental....

Morally you are correct, I'm just not sure how this plays into the dishonesty on both sides...



Originally Posted By: sparks14

In the end, I need to keep the past in the past and look towards the future.



The past is over and done, you do want to look towards the future, but your past needs to be in your rear view mirror. Your mistakes you have made need to be the reminders of what not to do in the future.

You use them to learn, and if you don't , they are just repeated patterns of stupid behavior.


Originally Posted By: sparks14

Does that mean anything?


To you, the only person that matters right now...

Your faith and dedication...