Wow, took me a while to get caught up on all that's gone on in a few days!
I agree with TrueGritter. I think it's great you got the chance to say all that but I think you need to be prepared for the fall out. She said how many times "why couldn't you have done it sooner?" She's going to be angry. You finally get it and you're happy and moving on but she's hurting and grieving the marriage and now you turn into a great guy after she finally got up enough nerve to leave? How dare you! Now, you're making her reconsider everything and you know how WAS' hate that! If she calls again (only if! Don't keep pursuing her!), angry, says that statement again... apologize, a lot. Tell her you're an idiot that it took you so long to figure it out. Tell her that it's the biggest regret of your life not being the H she deserved. Tell her that you hope someday she can forgive you. Let her be angry.
But don't pursue her! Let her make the next move.
Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16
Dating 4/07 M 10/08 Bomb #1 12/10 Bomb #2 1/11 Bomb #3 12/11
