i getcha and isn't it funny how the girls realized i sent it already, but 2step didn't read as clearly im just sayin' (and teasing) i really did feel bad for what i had said to him i told him he was just like his walk away mother, who left when he was 3 thank you all hope, a hug right back 2step and zen, you are right on all levels we need a bit of space and today is another day but let me vent aarrrggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh! there i feel better xo