will this letter do more damage than good?

[zengypsy]

Sister grr..

You sent it already huh? Hmmm...I'm not sure if this was a letter that should have been sent. Perhaps a journal entry would have been better.

Telling him you've changed, that you can do better is sadly going to fall on deaf ears I'm afraid at this point. The letter came across to me as pursuing a bit. He needs to see you've changed. Actions to support your words. He can't do that right in such close proximity - he needs the space to see it. If you love him that much you have to give him that space. He'll be watching from a distance - trust me.

I'm sorry you are hurting and I'm sending you a HUGE internet hug in the hope that it makes you feel better.

Today is another day. Get back on track with your DB! I have the utmost faith in you.