2, Alot of what you said to your W is what I said to my H in that infamous letter. I doubt I will get as good a return as you, but I needed to say those things to him just like you said to your W.
Grit always has great advice. As I have stated, he is a straight shooter and I really like that. No false hope with him. He keeps us on the reality wagaon! I think you have been doing a great job - keep it going. It'll be nice to have at least 1 friend who will make it.
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11