This is our 2nd marriage for both of us. Been together since 2002. Introduced through a mutual friend. Was a god send for me. We clicked right away. She and her kids moved in with me and my kids in 2004. Married in 2004.
Together we have 7 kids. Still have one at home.
I graduated to a new career in 2004. Basically started over after 23 plus yrs in the IT industry. Been a struggle financially.
Blended family issues, kids and money issues.
We both work.
Finances/Budget has always been a struggle for her. Not real good at saving.
W has always been obsessed with computer games.
Had a feeling that this was going on last August. Accidently saw a text on her phone from someone other than me that words like I love you where being used... She was asleep. Daughter sent text, thought I'd reply so she would have to wake up. Found text. Had an agrument over it. Thought it was the end.
She is very protective of her cell phone. Says that is none of my business what she does or who she texts.
Has been driving me crazy...
Now find this out. This is a totally different person. Not sure how they meet. Not sure how far it has gone. My sense is that is has been physical... Without going into a whole lot of detail, just various clues, what she wears, how she dresses, and started a different look.
Really want her back...
She is my my best friend...
Not sure where to start with either Love Busters or Divroce Remedy... Have both...
