I just caught up with your sicth, your emotional state kind of describes me right before the S, I would be fine with the separation one minute almost looking forward to the peace and quiet and then the next I would be a little down on myself. I didn’t find this website till January…….yay for me.
Her attitude is very constant with the attitude my W had but I think punchy gave you some good advice early on, you followed it and it worked. I would stay on that approach. My MC counselor ‘describe it as shooting an unarmed men’ the more she complains about you the less you defend yourself after awhile she will run out of reasons to complain.
