“Even when you were here to visit you did not get it. I was telling you and you weren’t getting it. You wanted to hear yourself talk about getting back together and you were not listening to me. I was telling you”
This is what you should listen to.
I understand where all you guys are. I really do because I was there.
This is really hard to hear but telling them you have changed and saying how many things in the M you own up to just reinforces why they left.
Do they feel guilt? yup you can see it up there in your convo.
Actions, not words.
Space, not constant contact by you.
I see your W as conflicted right now and that is a good thing.
Let her work it out.
The anger? Man my W told me I was living a fantasy life compared to her.
Very angry.
So is your W.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
