Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

[tdb68]

Wow.. I am numb. what a night. W tells me after dinner that she called MC and asked if she would "guide us through a divorce". I acknowledged her and said "I am sorry your feel that way". She then said that she didn't want this to be ugly and to remain friends, and she thought we needed help to do this?? I asked if this was her final decision or if she would go to MC with an open mind that perhaps there was some other way to work on the R (this may have been a mistake??). Has anyone else had this situation? I have been lying awake since 3 am, reading through post after post on this board looking for some consolation.. I asked her for a "time out" so I could process this.. I am in the middle of readin DR, and just finished the LRT section. Is this the end or do I keep going ??? Is it time to resort to The Last Resort?? Looking for any support..