BeingMe I have decided the only option is to let her go. I am shocked at how any parent, mother/father can be so uncaring/uninterested toward a child that is part of them. It's such a shame!
In my W's case, I think after she had the first child she quickly realized she really didn't want children, certainly not 3 or 4. Now she has a chance to be somewhat free from the chaos and boredom... And live a more exciting life, one she feels she missed out on. She has no intrest in being more involved and doesn't see that she is missing out a limited opportunity to love, hug, snuggle, nurture, bond with her children. At any rate her loss is my gain. My kids are not really with her now even when they are with her... She is so focused on her life, the OMen.
I am confident when my kids are able to choose, it will be me they would choose to live with... Though I'm sure the W will use some method to pursuade them so she can recieve $ or not pay $ to me.
I don't even know her! I truly have grown to dislike her.
