Dear YR, I am so very sorry that the ugly MLC monster has emerged again. I agree with everyone here - my divorce want through a few weeks ago, after more than 5 years post bomb, and 2 years of the divorce being on and off. I was dreading it, with every fibre of my being, but MissH is right, there is a peace this side, and I am not saying it to make you feel good. The process is horrible, reducing years of happy marriage to a division of assets, and it seems such a terrible waste, as they aren't happier after all of this destruction.
Anyway, my thoughts and prayers are with you - and I do recommend 'The Journey from Abandonment to Healing' Together with these boards, that book was one of the most helpful things I have encountered. It really helps YOU move to a better place emotionally. The person who wrote it has been there, and dealt with it herself.
