Lost,
I too know there are probably no words that I could offer to ease your mind right now. I have no idea what it was like to endure such a horrific event. Even the worst my imagination could cook up would probably pale in comparison to the actual event. So, out of respect for your tragedy, I will say nothing at all other than I offer my support and friendship.

2step is right. We all barely know each other. Yet, at times during the day, I find myself wondering about you guys and how you are doing. If I had a wish today, it would be to stop your pain. No doubt!

The first couple of nights after they leave is the worst. But, take it from a guy who has been sleeping, eating, watching TV and doing laundry alone for five months, IT WILL GET BETTER. (Just for laughs here, I would like to use a phrase a dear friend of mine used to use) I would not sh*t you about this as you are my favorite turd!! laugh I don't know why, but I always laugh when I use that line. I hope you can find some laughter in that also. Do me a favor. Tomorrow I want you to find three good reasons to laugh. Do it for FOBD. Just find a funny clip on YouTube or watch a movie you find funny and just laugh a couple of times. That always makes me feel better. Since my W left, I keep my DVR packed with sitcoms. When I can't get up, I just watch some stupid show and laugh like an idiot until I feel better. Try it, sweetie, please?

Sleep well tonight, my friend. You are truly never alone as long as you are a BITS!!!

Your friend,

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...