I probably messed things up for good with that text but I was just so tired of saying I'm sorry for things I did wrong in the M and him not once saying he was sorry for anything at all.
There seems to come a time when it gets too much; and something must be said. I can only hope you've given him some harsh food for thought; but whatever he decides will be out of your control.
You may also sent this at a time when he was NOT receptive to what you had to say...and everyone else is still being blamed for HIS problems; another thing that's out of your control.
Try not to worry about it; and detach from his drama, GF; you'll be fine, even if you don't see it now.
If your husband cannot straighten himself up and at least fly halfway right, considering where he is within the tunnel, you don't need him and HIS bull.
Somewhere within him he KNOWS what he's doing; and he kept on until you stopped it.
What happens going forward will be up to him; and not you; you said your piece...now the ball is in his court.
Take care.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
