Anyway, we have decided to divorce. I think it will be better in the long run. He has found himslef an apartment near work and I can't do this again. It's too bad because I do love him and 29 years of M is a long time.
YR,
I'm very sorry things are turning out this way; know that you have done all you can; but you can't do this alone...it truly takes two; may you find peace within all of the turmoil.
It may be after the divorce before he truly finds himself; and sees all that he lost by not having faced himself when he was within the tunnel years ago.
But, like you know, it's not YOU, it's HIM...and he is the only one who can figure this out....sometimes it takes losing everything to find that what was the best thing that ever happened to you was in front of you all along.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love to you, HB
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
