back rubs?
draw a bath for her, light some candles and let her have some alone time - she may surprise you and invite you in.
write her a note or a poem

not anything ground breaking but they're all things my W likes.

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE