Again, I'm sorry you are going through this again. However, I am very proud of you. I love how you are handling this. You are choosing YOU now. You are right, you deserve to live in peace.
I am not an advocate for divorce, but sometimes I think it is necessary. I can tell you as a divorce woman of 2 years, I am more at peace than I was the few years leading up to it. I can also tell you that it's not so scary on the other side. In fact, it's quite liberating. Your free to focus on yourself. I think the term DIVORCE is more scary than anything else.
You will be fine. You know you have done the best you can. Please don't ever beat yourself up for not wanting to stand for your marriage anymore. Most people wouldn't stand the first time around, never mind a second round of this bs.
You are a phenomenal woman! You have the support of everyone here and the support of your family. Your husband is a big boy, and he can learn to take care of himself. You just focus on you!
