I swear, even at your low points, you ABSOLUTELY. CRACK. ME. UP.
I am so sorry for what you are going through right now. I know that it is heart-wrenching. My H spent a lot of time telling me there was no hope and that it is absolutely over too. But then he reverses his position only a couple of weeks later. He's finally left and started our separation and I think that he's more miserable right now than I am. The point is, you have got to believe in something and you need to act accordingly. Believe you can save your M and then start really doing what Bolt said and lay out a game plan.
You are so awesome and you really do make me laugh. I don't believe for one second that being attracted to you is the only reason H came home the first time. Let grr shine in front of him because you sure do let her shine here and we all have a blast with you!!!
lis - you just made me cry thank you, thank you, thank you and know that because of you i will probably sleep better tonight that's what you just did i am sending a ton of good thoughts your way and i am GLAD that your husband is more miserable than you (is that so wrong?) but i hope you are not miserable at all and that each day will be better a warm hug internet hug for you!
Awwww... sweetie, I just hope that you BELIEVE in my sincerity because I meant every word of it.
The biggest hugs for you. Please do not put too much stock in what he's telling you. And whatever you do, DO NOT judge yourself by his words. We happen to think that you are pretty terrific on this board. We get to see the heart of people on this board. We get to know what's truly inside and I KNOW you are so worth it.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
lis i do believe you are sincere..c'mon you were talking about how great i am..how could you not mean it?
bolt, nope, that's not it i was talking about work the night was ok he awhile ago to say goodnight to both of us (he was very clear about that), and then proceeded to talk about internet connections and the like -(he is a geek, by the way) i was sure to hang up first i also feel like if i start REALLY putting what i have learned from the book and more importantly, you wonderful friends to work and start taking your advice, this just might not be over and yes group hug wish we really could so lots of love to all of you tonight however it gets to you through time and space
