Managed to stay completely put together eventhough the majority of the conversation was about the details of the divorce. I'm not as good as twostep at the play by play but some hilights...
She was friendly throuought and the conversation flowed well. She is still clearly looking towards the divorce as being some closure for her..
She told me that I had some info from the IRS about a business that I closed down in 2008 and I vented about my accountant having not taken care of that for me yet. One of her big problems with me was the fact that I haven't paid taxes on my poker earnings but the only reason that I haven't was as per my accountants advice. I tried to set all that up when I started playing but he told me that to file without them issuing a 1099 would be throwing money away + asking for an audit. I WANTED to file but took his advice so I got the opportunity to reiterate that fact to my wife tonight.
At the end of the call I went to end it (by mentioning that I was going to feed my nephew while my sister took a shower... bonus that wife,s love language is acts of service lol) but she kept me on the phone by trying to think of what else she wanted to tell me. Conversation continued and at one point she said "OK well I should get off of here" but I talked past that And kept her on for a few more minutes so that I could be the one to end it. Which I did shortly: )
Thanks to all the bits out there present, former, male and female who have given me the tools to understand what is going on and how I should cope with it. Wish me luck, my DBing has just begun!
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M 11/11/00 Bomb end of September 2010 Filed 11/9/10
