I hear AND more importantly I understand you Denver.
No one came here to learn how to become a better person you're right. I truly believe that becoming a better person offers the best chance to save a marriage the fundamental key...because while the goal is to stop a divorce...if you end it there, rest on your laurels...you failed.
You come out of this a better person, and you can hold their hand while they grow...slowly and you both build to become a better couple.
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Just want J3B's response to some stuff I wrote tonight on my other thread here. I love this thought.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
