lis - i cannot even begin to imagine what you are feeling right now you are a strong, beautiful woman and what happened is horrific, and in the past and you survived you, my dear, win the award of strongest woman on the board and you are so giving and warm to everyone else you have made so many friends here and we all are there for you you are not alone i hope you sleep well tonight and dream the sweetest of dreams you so deserve that i will be back later and check on you - internet style also, just think how lucky you are that daddy is ok xoxo