I hear AND more importantly I understand you Denver.
No one came here to learn how to become a better person you're right. I truly believe that becoming a better person offers the best chance to save a marriage the fundamental key...because while the goal is to stop a divorce...if you end it there, rest on your laurels...you failed.
You come out of this a better person, and you can hold their hand while they grow...slowly and you both build to become a better couple.
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P.S. At least you have an edit button J3B!
I won't use it until everyone can again. : )
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
