I think consideration is something you have to make it known you ëxpect - for what it's worth. Even Josh was a little casual about making phone calls when he said he would (in the beginning). I called him on it more than once (I was still in a fairly "fragile" place). Then one time I just threw caution to the wind when he didn't call (about 4 months in) and made plans the next couple of nights so I wasn't home to take his call. That got his attention. When he finally did catch up with me I just let him know that I had been here as planned on "phone night"but I did not intend to sit around waiting for him. He got the message and never ever missed a call or didn't message to let me know why. So - I took a risk but it was worth it. I did not want to be with anyone who didn't consider what I was doing with my time.
