I believe part of what makes women leave their husbands is that they have managed to take control of them, and resulting from that, they no longer respect them. When a women does not respect a man, she is not attracted to him.

Rediscovering your masculinity is KEY in this process.

Keep on the path you are on onestep. Be decisive, in-control of yourself, cocky, upbeat, sure of yourself, physically and mentally strong. Read my sig, think about the meaning, and consider how it applies to what you have been doing.

There are many resources out there for men who have lost (or never had) such masculine traits. Unfortunately I can't point you directly to them, but consider further research on the subject.

SF

Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A