My queston is, he isn't comfortable with his way of thinking and wants to learn /believe differently and how do I help him.
Hi CM, Welcome to piecing! Has he actually, specifically asked you to help him learn how to 'think different'? I'd tread very carefully here... this sounds like a job for the MC and him, more than you.
What have you been doing to help yourself through this situation?
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.