W emailed high school counsellor this morning telling the situation and asking for intervention. She did this without asking me. I do NOT think this is cool and I agree that school should be a safe zone.
It's not cool, and also not what is best for your D...
Originally Posted By: Xabian
I will set up separate C for the kids which would be better i think. I have to respond quickly to W about this...i just have to figure out how to.
Easy there X...
This is what she did to you, and you see how it bothered you...
This appears to have become a "pawn" game between the two of you right now....
Each trying to show who has control over, of all things, a life you created.
She is not a pawn in this, and will end up resenting both of you if this continues to happen...
I have been through this myself, watching a MLCer try to impose their "control" over children. It is not pretty , nor is it just.
Please document everything that is going on with this right now. If this becomes even stickier, you will need that information. And if it isn't documented, it didn't happen.
Please keep your daughter at the forefront of your thoughts when these decisions are made. Make those decisions with your head and not your heart.
Originally Posted By: Xabian
Things have got messy, but now my W sees its not all easy sailing.
I feel for ya man....I have been there , and its not easy.
