Rearrange the living room furniture Have her sit in another room Don't sit in there with her (act as if and do my own thing) Am I atleast on the right track?
On another note, W is seeing changes in me but I'm afraid they are changes that she doesn't like. (Although, I don't know why)Ever since this mess started, I've become much closer to my kids, especially my S18.
W made a comment to my SIL the other day that I was trying to become my S18's best friend. She made it sound like a negative thing. Why is that a bad thing? See what I mean? I'm beginning to think that I don't have a chance. Any thoughts?
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
