Thanks for catching up on my thread. Yes, my head is spinning and so are the kids' heads.
I'm just wondering if his text when he said "everybody stop texting and calling I'm tired of everybody's s***" "Go on with our lives and leave me alone" was just for me though. Don't know why he would text his sister or any of his family because they have house phones too. It just doesn't make sense......anyway then I get the lovely next text 3 days later telling me "yes I want the house sold, the D will not be put on hold, and it's over. I'm tired of everyone's bull."
I hope you and Jack are right, because I'm so afraid I ruined it. But I was so angry at him because of his control over me and our M and it was always on his terms since he left, and the kids still crying and now D14 asked if she could go back to counseling. Not only am I on this ride but he took the children with us too.
Jon, you made me feel much better by saying that one event like that is never the end. I am taking better care of myself and trying to have fun with D14. S20 is always with the gf. And let me tell you, while I have been on this rollercoaster, I notice I overreact alot to the highs and lows.....so I'm trying to hang in and on.
