Well, probably somebody who is desperate to get his marriage back together. However, I'm not crying, begging, pleading or anything like I was in the beginning.

She probably sees the same ol' me.

What can I do differently though?

She usually comes to the door, I let her in, she sits on the couch for a few minutes and then leaves with my S16. What can I do differently? Not let her in? I really dont have many options...

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13