My W has mentioned a bucket list, but she always implies that she's missing out on something?!

I know she has dreams, things she's wanted to fulfil her life - but we were towards those together. Financially I don't see how she fulfills them on her own?

So I'm not sure if that fantasy in her mind is someone else that will make the dreams come true for her? I agree though why all of a sudden a panic that they are "missing out" on something.

I tend to believe she really means an OM, someone she could truly love and love her while both having IDENTICAL desires, dreams and aspirations. I guess it's ok to think that, but is it really something to leave our M to pursue?

BITS
SIC

Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011