Shine on you crazy diamond...

[Bolt]

FOBD, I'm so proud of you for not engaging her when she was doing what she was doing. Spot on!

The hard part is next. Don't read into anything now. I like what you were thinking and you may be right but let me warn you to drop the thoughts. It made you feel better but continue to GAL for yourself! - not her.

If you continue your path of GAL, she will do more of what you saw the other day. She may try to drag you into fights so she can either win or show you that you haven't changed. She's just DYING to say, "See? You haven't changed." Don't get sucked into it.

Another word of caution. Careful with the games. She is playing them for sure but don't start any. To me (to be the party pooper), the Mexico pamphlets felt like a game. Like I said earlier, GAL for you not her. If you were indeed going to Mexico and "happened" to leave them out that great!

Just don't do it to get something out of her because it could backfire for sure.

This is where the rubber hits the road, dude. You've had a success. Keep on that train!