Yes it does! Years before the book "Love is a Decision" was published, there was a book "Happiness is a Choice". It took me quite a while to accept that line of thinking, but I finally realized that no matter what may happen in our life...we have the free will to choose how we will respond. Every day is that challenge for some who could otherwise not even get out of bed due to the circumstances around them. That is the message that DBers need to focus on....that no matter what their WS may choose to do, it won't determine the effect or response of the LBS.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
