VS - He's asking how your day went. I think that sounds pretty good. BUT don't read into it. That just means that your detaching is working. You have to continue to do it.
He said you weren't attentive in the past? I'm pretty sure that you were, just not to his standards. Now you aren't at all. He'll see that difference and like Mr.Bond said, he will act out to get your attention.
As far as the apt, I'm not sure. I know that I've done things and said things that I don't really mean. Did he really get an apt or did he just say it? We tend to say/do things that we don't mean but DO intend to hurt.
Kids will say, "I hate you!" They don't mean it but they know that it will hurt you and make them feel better.
This could be the case here.
Regardless, keep GAL and detach.
Stay strong!!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE