Hey FOBD, It’s so great to see you in such a happy place! All of your points are valid. I swear, for the life of me, I just don’t understand this address thing. Maybe for control, but really what control? It’s not like you couldn’t figure it out if you really wanted to. I haven’t asked my H for his address, maybe I should to test this thing out. There’s more than one of you who says that your spouses won’t give you their freaking address and the whole thing is beyond bizarre to me.
Of course she still cares! She is just really attached to the games right now. And a word of caution, don’t play games back. I know it feels good (heck, I’ve done it and it feels great), but it backfires quickly. There are so many great things that you are doing in your life that you don’t need to worry about games with her. Let her play and you concentrate on YOU.
A part of your post kind of depressed me. I thought that my H and I were through the button pushing stage. Are you saying that it happens again? Not sure I can handle that as well as you did. I think that you did such a great job with that!!!!
You are doing such a great job and I am so proud of you! Hopefully, you can hold me up as I move through the jungle of separation. I'm especially proud about what you did for the wedding. It was the right choice, in my opinion and I know how hard that was for you! Take care of yourself and I am praying for you! LIS
