The advice above is for Fixer, who has been here a good spell, not recommended for anyone who first shows up here, or has only been doing this a short while.
You might think you're different, like a beautiful snowflake, and yes, you are just like all the million other snowflakes. Individual, but all in the same situation.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
