Being calm ..... noticing things but not losing your poker face ..... validating ..... not begging or fighting .... and then .. the piece de resistance ....... THE BROCHURES. HAHAHAHA. You are the MAN. Are you feeling the groove of this?
BTW, you did the right thing to let the people getting married decide who to invite.
You're doing all the right things as far as I can tell. And, whether you and W reconcile at some point or not ... you are going to be in a better place.
You're my hero today man.
BITS always walk together. I have your back, FOBD.
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11
