Yes, those sites do have too much God stuff, even for me! It's good and all, but there also needs to be practical applications that can be applied to the issue at hand, i.e. Porn and how the family can deal with it.

Thank you Sandi, Spellfire - I wholeheartedly agree. One thing the DB coach observed about me yesterday was that I tend to start out with a DB plan whenever my wife and I conversate, but let my feelings and hence adrenaline get in the way of effective communication. So for instance, when my wife yells for me, I'd tend to let her know that she's being rude in a snide way, rather than calming fashion. I hate how easily I get riled up sometimes. This is one of my 180s...and you know, it works fine outside the home, but something about me talking to my wife brings out the old habits. Mind you, it's less so nowadays, but it still shows up enough times to turn my wife off.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112