Don't respond to her if she is yelling at you from across the house. When she asks why you are not responding, tell her you find it rude that she is yelling at you in such a way, and that if she wants to speak to you, she needs to come to you and do so in a respectful tone.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A