Like zen, I've been feeling down for days and while reading the first half of your post I felt very defeated on your behalf, as it was mirroring the way I've been feeling, however; you were able to do something I've not been capable of thus far. You were able to read into all your W's acts and understand the underlying meaning behind them.
I've been struggling with practicing the DB techniques, but this gives me hope that I too will some day not cry at every horrible things my H does and says and understand that 'he does this because...'
I LOVE the travel brochure plant !! awesome ! I too have been having some fun in the 'make him think' department. I let my H stay at the house during Christmas to watch the cats as I would be out of town anyway. Before I left, I bought all new sexy lingerie and organized my personal dresser drawers.. I had a sneaking suspicion that he would go snooping.. and he did !! I WANTED him to think a) who did i buy the lingerie for ? and b) I wanted him to picture me IN the lingerie as over the past few months of our separation I've been working out, lost weight and look better now than I did when we got married.. lol
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"Good memories tell you that your past was worth it, bad ones tell you that you were strong enough to go on"
