You took a step backward by trying to have sex with her. The WAW has no interest in us physically and in some respect they are repulsed by us. I can understand your frustration, my wife and I have not had sex in 2 years. For the longest time, my wife wouldn't even sit on the same couch as me!
This is a roller-coaster ride, but you have to be able to take whatever comes you way. Stick to your plan, accept, acknowledge and listen. Any thing beyond that and you are going backwards re the relationship.
Will be interesting to see what the MC has to say about your going along with her plan approach.
