Reccos - I'm sorry that you are going thru this for the second time. I totally agree with TG007, FB IS truly a devil's playground. I've never heard it quite put that way, but it's so incredibly true and fitting.
Get Michele's book DR if you haven't already and start reading. We are all in the same boat in this forum and have forged some really great friendships. Other people's insights too have been extremely helpful. Sometimes you're too close to the situation and you need that outside perspective.
Hang in there and please continue to post. I will follow your story.
Peace - ZG
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11