FOBD - I've read your post a few times because your synopsis of the sitch resonated with me. I am feeling low again today but after I read your post, you put things in better perspective for me. Especially with your view in points 2, 3 & 5.

Point 2 confirms what I've been saying and lost sight of which is when the LBS is out of the picture more and more, the WAS can't blame you for stuff anymore like they used to. It's like you said they are losing control over the situation and will have start facing their very disillusioned lifestyle that the grass is greener.

You gave me a reminder reality check today that I too am a DB'g prof. I am making healthier decisions and choices. Our WAS are stuck.

Thanks FOBD - that was the boost I needed.

Kudos to you btw all across the board - the Mexico thing - nothing short of brilliant!

BITS

M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0
T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd)
WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved
Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10
Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11