Cause a display that is. BTW... Is not wanting to be more involved as a parent normal for WAWs too? I know she loves them, but WOW seems to have little motherly emotions. Alot like her own mother in fact.
Not sure if that's normal or if you can call anything "normal" with a WAW. Maybe "abnormal"?
Anyways, my W only cares about the kids. She wants to sell our house and buy a little place just for her and kids. Who cares about me.
Although she usually follows that with "you'll be so much better off anyways" and "you can see the kids whenever you want" and "you can have them on weekends".
Ya, that will be just like how it is now?!?!
I always worry about the financial aspects, as she keeps telling me this is her choice and that she will stand or own and only wants child support to help with kids, none of my pension or RRSP's and no ailimony. She was talking to the bank yesterday, and she only has $7000 in RRSP so I'll be shocked if she doesn't try to get more from me.
As for the current sitch, I don't see what other choice you have. I'm just at the phase where I am starting to agree with my W and want to work with her on the seperation plans. It seems to be really messing with her head.
She seems like a different person everyday to be honest. I'm starting to believe that the only way to save my M is for us to seperate so I can take the time to go dark and be happy myself because I find the sitch always brings me down.
Good luck B2BD, glad to hear and update from you. I believe I will be in your shoes in the next 3 months.
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Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011