You're right on that Mr Bond. My WAW is in her own bubble and thinks she can do no wrong right now.
W has approached me several times since yesterday asking what i meant by promising D15 a car when she can drive. I had to clarify 3 ways that i (1) offered to D a cheap car, if i could afford it, so she could be mobile between parents (2) and as a way of making D feel ok with living with her mom a bit and being able to see me whenever. Of course W seems to have taken it as i am buying D off with favoritism...when i was actually trying to do W a favor. I kind of knew D15 might choose to live with me right off the bat. My intuition was right. W is quite worked up about this car thing since it doesnt fit her masterplan. I'm perplexed why this is an issue.
I could choose to ignore W's ranting or appease her and discuss this a bit with D to lessen expectations. I was only trying to mellow the situation with something i thought was reasonable however now I see this coparenting is gonna be tough.
