[quote] Let me ask you a question. Why are the two of you in MC if she's decided to leave in June?
I am not sure, I still want to work and I know she is aware of that. I just assume that if she wanted to stop the marriage counseling she would speak up. Is that assumption incorrect?
As far as changes sticking, she has acknowledged that she sees the changes but that she fears that if she says she will try again, then I will revert to my old ways.
I honestly see the changes and how well they have affected and changed my children's view of me. My daughter and I have started taking walks in the evening with the dog. My daughter really seems to be liking the time we spend together.
My son is 13 and really does just enjoy playing XBOX and chatting with his friends on there. So I just talk to him when we are around each other. I am working on trying to build a bond with him ow just as I have with my daughter.
Now for my wife, I am just staying focused and enjoying the calm in our house.
Me - 39 yrs old Wife - 39 yrs old Married - 18 years Together - almost 21 year Kids - son age 13/ daughter age 10 Bomb Dropped in May 2010 Seperating - June 2011, after school lets out