I mean does it truly matter if I am changing who I am because I want to be with her? Either way I am working on being a better person..
Here's one of your biggest problems. You are making changes for one reason......and it is to get her to commit to staying with you. That will not work. You are spinning your wheels. That is why you are so exhausted and looking for her to support your changes.
Have you read threads from men who got their WAW's back but didn't stick to their changes? It won't last unless those changes are for YOU and you only. But, so far, you have not accomplished that. Your W can see through it.
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Well wife never came to bed last night... Second night in the last 4 nights she "fell sleep" on the couch! What does this mean?
What does it mean? Are you serious? I think she's making a pretty firm statement about not sleeping in bed with you.
Let me ask you a question. Why are the two of you in MC if she's decided to leave in June?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
