Calm down my man. If she is planning on leaving it would be irresponsible of her not to plan ahead. I think you fail to see the silver lining here, your W has giving u a time table some w's don't do that.
If she is working on resume that should not surprise you one bit. Your problem is that you have not convinced yourself that she is leaving. Accept it as reality and then these little things will not have the power to alter your mood.
