Well, now's she's changed her tactic and so now when she wants something she just yells my name from across the house and expects me to feel guilty enough to come to her.
That's the kind of thing my kids used to do to me (and still do from time to time). I just ignored them until one of them came to me. I would then look them in the eye and tell them "if you want something, you can come to me. I don't respond to yelling from across the house."
You might feel a little guilty using this approach, instead, think of it as respecting yourself. You shouldn't be at anybody's beck and call.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011